Naturally, I have assumed the role of the asshole of the site (somebody has gotta do it). This behavior is necessary because of all the polarized people here with complete lack of balance. My behavior is not to be confused with the idea that I am spewing "negativity" because I am sad or in pain, or any other shit you stole from your introductory psychology teachers or books. I am doing it consciously, and for the good of the community, believe it or not. (many of you will not believe, or simply will not understand.) I am not hurting anyone for any reason.
It seems that what some people are saying is that they only want from this site what they could get out of any hallmark card. (That is what your pages, blogs, and chat is for if you want it, it is not doing anything for others in discussions in the forum.)
Why are we saying that we are open minded and accepting, when we reject half of our reality? Many people here are so polarized that they reject all anger, pain, sadness, and anything ignorantly labeled "negative." There is this idea that we are not allowed to talk about anything without saying love, light, and peace. What I don't understand, and I hope that you, yes, you, will see is why we believe in things, then completely reject them. Why do you even believe that sadness, anger, pain, etc. exist, if you will reject it from your reality and aren't allowed to say it or think it? Why deny half of the emotions, feelings, and thoughts that we experience?
People are saying that if we disagree with one another, we should restrain from "negativity" (that abstract, subjective nonsense word again), and deal with each other in a "polite and constructive way." Well, any way we deal with each other is constructive. And many prefer that we speak to them straight when we disagree rather than be condescending and sarcastic, (the "politeness is only a disguise for what's going on).
Why are some people suggesting that some things shouldn't exist? Why do you believe in things but reject them? That is not acceptance of your reality, though you claim some things that suggest otherwise about yourselves. In your polarized acceptance and half-love of all things, you are saying that you do not believe in conflict or resolution, growth, or life itself. It is sad that by refusing this world, you are denying your own lives of existence and experience. Some things are gray, and some are black and white. If things are black and white, I accept both. I don't label one as good, positive, light and one as bad, negative, dark. I am an accepting person. I do not preach love, then live in denial of half of my world.
What's the deal people? If you aren't ready for an open mind, then keep it closed, but don't deny others of the experience of life, the full spectrum of life.